One week out from Halloween, 2023, I offer the following observations - and hope they aren't as true everywhere, as they our in my little corner of the world.
Halloween just ain't what it used to be!
For most Halloweens in the 21st Century, there's been a steady decline, and a trickling to almost nothing, in the number of trick-or-treaters 'round here! It's been particularly so since 2020 and COVID, when I was forced to put this sign upon my door.
This year, Esther and I actually wondered if we should even buy (what has now become our customary) ONE BAG of candy! Recent tradition prevailed, though, and figuring that some of it would eventually go to Averi and Cici, we chose a bag of candies that "their favorite Yeh-Yeh" (that's me) would also not mind eating over time.
Over the course of the entire day only ONE GROUP of three girls rang the doorbell, to whom were doled-out a small portion of the underutilized candy! That doling being exclusive of Snickers and Twix, the clear choice of "Averi and Cici's favorite Yeh-Yeh" (that's still me) to be eaten over time.
Esther said there was another ring that went unanswered because I was upstairs offloading the soggy contents of the washing machine to the clothes dryer and didn't hear it. If so, I feel bad, but my point remains unchanged!
That being... Kids just don't trick-or-treat anymore.
I guess it's just another sign of the unpleasant world we now live in! (And, say... didn't I begin my last post with that exact same sentence?)
The fear, suspicion, and outright distrust that has gripped our society during the period of 9-11 through the more recent near-decade of toxic politics, post-COVID adjustments, and new wars springing up in what we'd finally begun to regard as reasonably "stable" areas of the world (pretty much this whole damned 21st Century) have, if not outright killed this fun tradition, at least sent it into what looks to be a long hibernation!
Trick-or-treating is well on its way toward becoming as antiquated and insignificant an activity as... oh, say... giving someone a hotfoot - but without the required matches and resultant foot pain!
The saving grace to this is that it looks to be ONLY trick-or-treating that is receding into life's great rearview mirror - NOT Halloween itself, which continues to be celebrated in the form of parties, both in schools and private homes, where children can wear their costumes and get candy from persons they know and trust. ...That MAY actually be a good thing!
Spooky decorations still abound in our community, though I am personally loathe to decorate the outside of my house for any season or occasion - the work (only to be undone so soon that it's not worth it) and an aversion to any outdoor efforts in the late fall and winter months are prime factors.
Still I enjoy and am happy for the (oft-overdone, but nice) decor of others. Alas, such houses vastly outnumber the actual trick-or-treaters visiting them.
Averi and Cici, who live in a town just south of us, did have a great time trick-or-treating - and, by accounts, there seemed to be an overall higher level of activity but contained to a very small and specific area.
No, that's not THEIR house behind them!
Nor is that one - but no lack of creativity here! That's for sure!
Though, while far from finished, I can't help but wonder if trick-or-treating isn't something a number of today's kids do simply because they see it on TV! ...More than they do in real-life!
Do whatever you can to change my mind, folks! Our great friend Elaine usually has some more optimistic Halloween stories... hope that's still true! And the rest of you, please give... but just not candy, I have more than enough of that!